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Real Estate & Marriage

As more career-minded adults find love later in life, it isn’t uncommon for these two merging lives to have to figure out what to do with the homes their bringing into the marriage.  The most common solution is to sell one (or both) and find their perfect together home.  When thinking of this situation, you have several options to explore and we’ll explore a few of those options in this article.

Getting Married & Real EstateSell one home, live in the other home

Selling one home and living in the other often sounds the most reasonable – and often it is. Especially, if one of the homes meets all the requirements of the newlywed couple.

We’re not going to spend any time reinforcing the reasons to stay in a home as often the reasons for doing so do not require a list of reasons to do so. Selling a home, now that often requires some discussion.

First, you ought to recognize that regardless if you keep one home and sell the other, both people will need to do some major decluttering – two fully furnished, fully decorated, fully lived-in homes simply do not merge together within one of the preexisting living spaces. In fact, we’re not even talking about one person declutter by half and the other matching, we’re suggesting each person declutter by over 50%. Of course, this isn’t a hard fast rule, but generally speaking, people have a lot more stuff then they really recognize.

Sell both homes, buy a new house together

Selling both homes is often is the best option when neither home truly matches the needs and/or wants of the couple. When you think about it both homes often represent a time of different priorities, purchased around a different stage in life, and with entirely different needs in mind. Merging a household often requires a new understanding of future priorities, interests, and needs; hence the need for a new bigger or smaller home.

Selling both homes is often the best option when merging families that include children; it prevents one set of kids from feeling like their space has been invaded by another group of kids who feel like the invaders. Homes often come with a years of good (and bad) memories – moving on (literally) is way to build new memories with your spouse.

When selling both homes comes into view, establishing a comprehensive plan becomes necessary to simplify the process – talk with a REALTOR® to establish a game plan.

Getting Married & Real EstateRent out one (or both homes)

There are a lot of reasons why you may want to rent out one or both homes – real estate is often a sound investment, and like any investment be sure to weigh the benefits against the risks. Since you already recognize the tremendous benefits of real estate investment let’s cover some of the most common risks that may not be at the top of your mind.

  • If your home(s) still have a mortgage payment it often doesn’t take much of a hiccup to add financial strain. Be sure you can comfortably afford periods of rental vacancy.
  • Unlike most stocks, selling a home isn’t instantaneous; and to prevent emotional decisions regarding your new real estate holdings you ought to have a written understanding of your financial goals related to the properties AND a firm understanding of the conditions in which you will sell.
  • Becoming market unaware. When you’re living in the neighborhood it’s easy to see what’s going on, who’s selling, who’s moving in, and what new developments are going on around you. These small changes over time influence your local market – and as such, you’re in a better position to understand when you might want to sell or even improve your property. When you’re not around, these things could land up being a bad surprise that diminishes property value hurting your ability to maximize your investment potential.
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I have been a licensed REALTOR® and Entrepreneur in the Bay Area since 1987. Being a REALTOR® is about helping others achieve home ownership by providing quality professional services buying and selling properties. I was recognized as REALTOR® of the Year in 2001, hold the Tribute to Women in Industry Award, was honored in the XYZ International Hall of Fame, hold the XYZ Lifetime Achievement Award, Solano County Association of REALTOR® Distinguished Service Award and the Peyton Manning Humanitarian Award.

Being fully dedicated to the industry means giving back to ensure that our Napa community always remains a top place to live and raise a family. I am honored to have held many positions in my Real Estate Career including President of the Napa County Association of REALTOR®, President of the Sacramento Multiple Listing Service, President of the Oakland Multiple Listing Service, President of the Nevada Association of REALTOR® and Director of the National Association of REALTOR®. I have sat on the Boards of Placer County Association of REALTOR®, Oregon Association of REALTORS® and the National Association of REALTOR®.